Back To School

Today I took two of my children to a meet and greet at their school. I still can't believe that my baby is in middle school! My kids looked so excited walking around the school, meeting teachers and seeing their friends.

"Back to school" always brings out so many different emotions in our family. It is a mix of intimidation, excitement, and sadness. I remember each child going off to school for the first time. They looked so little. The school was so big. The teacher was so big. And the principal was enormous! But it took no time at all for them to return home excited about the new adventure ahead.

The emotion of sadness is always what I feel as "Mom." Yes, I am happy for all the new things in my children's lives but the beginning of the school year is just another reminder that they are growing up; Another reminder that the years go by all too fast.

So, after I shed a few tears, and heave a big sigh, I go back to being "Mom." I go back to loving my children, listening to my children, and enjoying every stage of their lives. Now, where did I put that extra box of pencils?

I just saw "Aliens in the Attic" with my kids.  Interesting.  

A few observations from a mom's perspective:  First, I am so tired of all the movies that make parents look like absolute imbeciles and totally clueless.  Are we really that bad?  Are our kids trying to tell us something?  I don't know, maybe all these film writers are trying to work through disappointing childhoods.

I am also so tired of the kids in these movies living their lives virtually apart from their parents. Do the parents not even check up on the kids to see what they're up to?

I guess I'm oversensitive on parenting as I see it in our media.  If there were no issues I guess there would be no stories.  And the movies I have seen always end with a special bond made between child and parent so that's good.  

But one thing I have learned from all these movies:  Listen to your children, always.  Especially if they tell you there are aliens in the attic. :)   

I Love Summer!

I'm looking out at the ocean right now feeling totally calm and at peace.  Summer has a way of doing that for me.  There is no morning rush to get the kids to school.  There is no rushing to get lunches packed.  There is just no rushing.  

Summer has always given me a chance to enjoy my kids.  I have more time to play with them, more time to listen to their jokes, more time to look at them and just appreciate who they are and where they are in life.  

I know that before long, we will be back in the throes of a busy school year.  We'll be learning new schedules and (ugh!) getting up to the sound of the alarm clock.  The kids will again leave the house in the morning for new experiences in their lives.  They will grow taller and more mature.  And the mommy in me will cry.

But until then, I'll enjoy the soothing sounds of the waves . . . and go boogy boarding with my kids one more time.